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My Best of November.

  1.  What looks like a talent gap is often a focus gap. The "all-star" is often an average to above-average performer who spends more time working on what is important and less time on distractions. The talent is staying focused
  2. Reflection requires stillness. One cost of rushing from thing to thing is that you lose the space to think. Hard work matters, but nonstop motion often hides a quiet truth: you could have used your time better. If you never pause, you confuse activity with effectiveness. Make time to think. Walk outside. Sit quietly. Create space. Then move again, but this time on purpose.
  3. You should attempt things that are difficult enough to guarantee some early embarrassment, but important enough that long-term regret is unlikely. Trying something difficult will usually make you look foolish or inexperienced. That’s fine. That's the cost of learning. But if it's important to you, then you'll work through the early failures and — even if things ultimately change shape or don't work out — you'll never regret going for it.
  4. If you weren't allowed to complain about this thing anymore, what action would you have to take?

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